Damn I think I messed up.

[KingDosia]

I normaly only have guy friends, girls are 2 catty..maybe it's cause I don't have sisters.. lol

Ok And I have heard that so many times. But how would you feel about and deal with the situation at hand? "put yourself in hers or my shoes" Then what?

[Shanus]

Kingdosia gon' ball, 'cus 'Dosia got bread, 'Dosia aint gotta smoke or drink he gets head.. King keeps atleast six women up in the bed..

You know the rest.

[Mr Gruber]

Ok And I have heard that so many times. But how would you feel about and deal with the situation at hand? "put yourself in hers or my shoes" Then what?

first of all you haven't heard that..I'm the only girl that's posted on here..

I guess weird..but I'd get over it especially if it was bad..lol If it was good I'd be asking for a friends with benefits situation

[KingDosia]

first of all you haven't heard that..I'm the only girl that's posted on here..

I guess weird..but I'd get over it especially if it was bad..lol If it was good I'd be asking for a friends with benefits situation

I meant I have heard many women say that in the past.

And it WAS good, not good but So good. I know her secrets from talking to her. And we were busy for a good 2 hrs. "just had to defend my rep" I was wondering, she used to hang out with my ex. And she had mentioned the ex used to brag about a few things. Maybe she wanted to try it out?? Is that possible?
And say it did happen, it was wonderfull. Do you think the cool friend vibe you had with the friend could still exsist, or does being that interpersonal change things?

[Mr Gruber]

I meant I have heard many women say that in the past.

And it WAS good, not good but So good. I know her secrets from talking to her. And we were busy for a good 2 hrs. "just had to defend my rep" I was wondering, she used to hang out with my ex. And she had mentioned the ex used to brag about a few things. Maybe she wanted to try it out?? Is that possible?
And say it did happen, it was wonderfull. Do you think the cool friend vibe you had with the friend could still exsist, or does being that interpersonal change things?

I don't know, because everyone is different. I mean if she had something for you, then she might be wanting more. It just depends on what she wanted from it. I'd just act like normal, let her say something to you. I'd just act like nothing happened. I know it might be hard..but if she wants something she'll let you know.

[Scottie2Hottie]

been in this situation a lot, man.

usually my catchphrase is, "so...whatre your thoughts on all of this?"

theyll almost always say. "i dunno, you?" psh women.

then you say "well i really enjoyed the other night, but im just not so sure that i wanna be in a relationship with you. we're such good friends, and i know this sounds like a cop out, but i dont wanna screw things up between us."

that almost always does it. if not, you can just give em a new pair of cement high heels and ask them to check the pH balance of the east rivah.

[BuddyChacon]

Ok And I have heard that so many times. But how would you feel about and deal with the situation at hand? "put yourself in hers or my shoes" Then what?

I just want to say I am proud of you and Fonzie is proud of you also. I have slept with friends and if you don't get a crush on either side you will be okay. I just look at it like it is only *** and not a big deal.

[KingDosia]

been in this situation a lot, man.

usually my catchphrase is, "so...whatre your thoughts on all of this?"

theyll almost always say. "i dunno, you?" psh women.

then you say "well i really enjoyed the other night, but im just not so sure that i wanna be in a relationship with you. we're such good friends, and i know this sounds like a cop out, but i dont wanna screw things up between us."

that almost always does it. if not, you can just give em a new pair of cement high heels and ask them to check the pH balance of the east rivah.

LMAO at the pH balance thing.
I'm pretty good at playing a role. And communicating I'm not at a loss for words. And not avoiding her. She's been hell a buisy since Sunday, we got plans to hang out this weekend so I'm not steering around the subject or acting like it didn't happen. I think I am afraid she has those feelings and wants more out of it than I am capeable of giving right now. And I have this ass holeish defense mechanism for such an uncomfortable situation.

[nance]

Just talk to her.
I have a friend to where our friendship went that route, but we talked about it first. Our friendship and respect will always be put first and foremost above all else. If our feelings change towards one another, we talk about it. Mine already have for him and I told him so.....and we're still seeing each other.

Communication is the key to any good relationship, no matter the status of said relationship.

[KingDosia]

I just want to say I am proud of you and Fonzie is proud of you also. I have slept with friends and if you don't get a crush on either side you will be okay. I just look at it like it is only *** and not a big deal.

ha ha
I'll be honest and I think you of all know where I am coming from. I had a failed marriage. Who was an awsome friend of mine before we got together. Since then it's like I am petrified of getting close. Meaningless *** is like an asprin for the headache. So here I am again with the same type of "friend"
And buggin the hell out, because I enjoyed myself like no other. Love the **** out of her, but there is no way I'm getting into another relationship. It wouldn't be fair for either one of us. I just broke up with the girl friend. Because I knew I wasn't ready to get any deeper in a relationship. Hence the title Damn I think I messed up.