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    when to settle down?

    after posting in the "how old are you" thread... this shiiet got me thinking... im in my mid/late 30s now and still aint got no kids!!! should i start worrying now? or do i still have time? anyone around my age in a similar situation? i dont want to be in my 60s when my kids are only in the 1st grade. this will not be any fun for the both of us.

    what do you guys think about settling down at an older age? is this better since you'll be more prepare financially? or do you prefer to settle down sooner? sometimes i kinda wish i had kids at a younger age so by now, my kids would be at the age where we both can do things together. im just thinking if i have kids when im way too old, by the time they're old enough to ride a bike or something i'll prolly be way to old to teach them or show them how too.

    what is your take on this?
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    #2
    Better hurry if you want kids. No kid wants the father that everyone thinks is his grandfather.

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      #3
      fvvvk it!! 2020, im dropping all my bad habits. it's time to finally grow up, i guess?

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        #4
        mid 30's and no kids? but since your a dude you really got no time limit on that but WOMEN DO! so you better knock one up soon! cause maybe you can be 35 and pull a 30 year old, but it gonna be harder if you are 40 trying to pull a 30 year old lmfai.

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          #5
          Originally posted by .!WAR MIKEY!. View Post
          mid 30's and no kids? but since your a dude you really got no time limit on that but WOMEN DO! so you better knock one up soon! cause maybe you can be 35 and pull a 30 year old, but it gonna be harder if you are 40 trying to pull a 30 year old lmfai.
          that was my mindset before... i used to think like that, that's why it was never a problem with me before because i would always say "i still have time"... but like i mention above, i dont want be to old azz shiiet when i finally do have kids.

          also one thing i dont want is having to settle down with a women my age that already has kids of her own from another relationship, but if i dont settle down soon, this is gonna be the case.

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            #6
            There is no right time to get married but if I were to give a number, Id say between 35-40 is ideal for men.

            Next time you run into a homely type that you can imagine taking home to mama, dont let her go. When you meet that person, you will feel it. You will know it.

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              #7
              There is no universal right time. There are a few times that are never ideal though, in both directions. If you wait too long there are numerous disadvantages. As you are raising them but potentially even dying too soon for that matter. Once you have kids i'm sure you won't like the idea of leaving them in their 20's, even if they are adult they still could use your guidance. And you don't want to miss out on them settling down, having kids of their own etc.

              Then again, it would be worse to rush it if you really aren't ready. Worse yet if you knock up the wrong woman. That's always been one of my greatest fears. Being tied to some crazy b!tch for life and have her mess up our kids.

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                #8
                Originally posted by Robbie Barrett View Post
                Better hurry if you want kids. No kid wants the father that everyone thinks is his grandfather.
                Lol, most of the teens I coach have dads in their early 50s. While im out on the court with the kids breaking a sweat, they are on the bench worrying about breaking a hip. I couldnt see myself like that.

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                  #9
                  Originally posted by IceTrayDaGang View Post
                  that was my mindset before... i used to think like that, that's why it was never a problem with me before because i would always say "i still have time"... but like i mention above, i dont want be to old azz shiiet when i finally do have kids.

                  also one thing i dont want is having to settle down with a women my age that already has kids of her own from another relationship, but if i dont settle down soon, this is gonna be the case.
                  Dont get married, its like signing a TR contract, youll only get screwed in the end. The trick is to find a woman more financially successful than you and knock her up.

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                    #10
                    Originally posted by IceTrayDaGang View Post
                    that was my mindset before... i used to think like that, that's why it was never a problem with me before because i would always say "i still have time"... but like i mention above, i dont want be to old azz shiiet when i finally do have kids.

                    also one thing i dont want is having to settle down with a women my age that already has kids of her own from another relationship, but if i dont settle down soon, this is gonna be the case.
                    DING DING DING!

                    better hurry up cause as is you're pool of available women is very small (women 30'ish with no kids).

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