A ****** mother****er of a relative has landed in debt with local King pins wwyd?

[i_am_a_champ]

I would help him out but Id beat his ass first myself.

felt like that immediately when he started lying. Showed me how cold he was.

[i_am_a_champ]

Tell him.to invest in ******. Then show him the lounge ****** thread.

the ****** kunt already does

[i_am_a_champ]

I can sort of relate.. i got a cousin in the philippines that owes me $3000 (150,000 pesos).. her parents and family don't know about her debt to me.. i feel that money is gone.. i dont want to tell her parents or my parents as this could lead to a fight especially if she cant pay.. my mom and her dad are siblings and they are close..but at the same $3000 is still decent money.. looking back my dumbass should have only loaned her $1000..

Butler I think you understand some what since I've read you said that your family members of relatives ask you for cash cos you are on a good salary , sucks I have some who do that too like I don't have plans for my money smh

[$Bullsfam$]

No way in hell you should pay in full like butler said. Maybe a little to get him some breathing room for his family but he should have to work that off. Whatever you pay dont expect back. He obviously doesn't care and whatever hes doing is more important to him than the livelihood of his family, As you said it could traumatize if not outright harm his family and he still did it. I got a ******** problem but im a single man so when i **** up i have to live with my own consequences. I also borrow from my better off sister but i always pay her back and have been with interest lately because i know shes the one person i can always rely on and i want her to know its appreciated. When i needed 2k for my lawyer she sent that in 5min, i can never show her how much i appreciate that.

Clearly this guy doesn't even appreciate you trying to help him by lying. Like hes ok with whatever is gonna happen. You'd probably be helping him more letting him get that ass beat.

[Jim Jeffries]

Sibling, parent or grandparent, I'd do anything I could. Outside of that, nothing more than put in a good word to try and keep them from walking with a limp. Maybe not even that if they lied to me about it.

[i_am_a_champ]

No way in hell you should pay in full like butler said. Maybe a little to get him some breathing room for his family but he should have to work that off. Whatever you pay dont expect back. He obviously doesn't care and whatever hes doing is more important to him than the livelihood of his family, As you said it could traumatize if not outright harm his family and he still did it. I got a ******** problem but im a single man so when i **** up i have to live with my own consequences. I also borrow from my better off sister but i always pay her back and have been with interest lately because i know shes the one person i can always rely on and i want her to know its appreciated. When i needed 2k for my lawyer she sent that in 5min, i can never show her how much i appreciate that.

Clearly this guy doesn't even appreciate you trying to help him by lying. Like hes ok with whatever is gonna happen. You'd probably be helping him more letting him get that ass beat.

Man you dont know how much i hate this mother****er right now. And he obviously doesnt care, because i have found out he did something simmilar. A frend gave him some money , they had an idea to try and flip the cash. He swallowed the cash, spent it and it went. This dude went to his family to get the money back.

I cant let his family know right now, they have been through some tragedies , it will destroy his mother for sure. It would probably end his marriage, his wife will lose all respect for him

You sister is a good person fam. She sounds true to the heart. Thats realness.

This mother****er is ****in delusional, he thought they would forget it, He has never had a beat down in his life. The mero mero asked me if he had ever suffered a beat down and i said no. His reply was "he really needs one to wake him up"

The ****** kunt doesnt realize the serious muscle he had behind him, all gone now due to his bytch azz

**** that kunt

[jjho]

Man, that's a tight spot to be in. You've already got your mind mostly set on helping him, which speaks volumes about your character. Many of us might hesitate because we value our hard-earned money. Still, at the end of the day, your gesture could not just sort the debt but potentially save a lot of emotional collateral damage within the family.

But make sure you're set, too. I'd suggest approaching it as a loan or setting a repayment plan with the relative; maybe get it in writing to keep things clear. FYI, remember to keep your financial health in check. Don't dive into debt trying to save someone else.
I'm currently managing my own financial stuff with the help of this . It's much easier when you have a professional to help you with financial-related questions.
Remember, money's tough, but family's tougher.

[Batko10]

Is the money owed due to ******** or drug abuse? If it is either I would let him swing in the wind. Degenerate gamblers are as bad as drug addicts. They will cry, beg, and swear that they will straighten out. Unfortunately, it never happens and they will do the same thing after things cool down a bit.

How close is this relative? If it's your kid then ignore #1, pay off the debt, and get him/her into gambler's anonymous or drug rehab depending on the problem. If it's a sibling and this is the first time ignore #1 and proceed as if it's your kid. If it's not the first time then refer to #1.

[markusmod]

Is the money owed due to ******** or drug abuse? If it is either I would let him swing in the wind. Degenerate gamblers are as bad as drug addicts. They will cry, beg, and swear that they will straighten out. Unfortunately, it never happens and they will do the same thing after things cool down a bit.

How close is this relative? If it's your kid then ignore #1, pay off the debt, and get him/her into gambler's anonymous or drug rehab depending on the problem. If it's a sibling and this is the first time ignore #1 and proceed as if it's your kid. If it's not the first time then refer to #1.

Add degenerative shoppers to that mix, people who overextend themselves with credit cards.

[Zaroku]

What kind of sh#t did your relative get into? Bullsh#t pulling you into it. Shouldn’t have to be that way. Cut him off.

My lil cousin is soft and Nigerians want to be paid what he owes


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